Kyra Prays: It's not my place to judge.

Tuesday, November 9, 2010

It's not my place to judge.

"What the Bible Says About Healthy Living" by Rex Russell
I usually refrain from reading more than one thing at once unless it's a graphic novel, but I forgot the book mentioned in my last post (unChristian) at my house by accident so I grabbed a different one from the car.  I got this book a while ago at the used book store, but hadn't gotten a chance to read it yet.  I haven't gotten far into it yet, but so far it's a great book.  It talks about eating things as close as they come from nature, seasonal, and certain things for certain health issues.  I'm going to give a better analysis of it once I finish it, though that may be a while since I'm very into unChristian right now!

In other news, things have been amazing.  I told Patrick today that I'm okay with us trying to have his ex-girlfriend Lisa as a part of our lives.  Not necessarily as a good friend or anything (though I don't disregard that possibility whatsoever), but I don't mind her being around sometimes.  I thought today about how she seems to be really trying to salvage a friendship with him, and she seems really happy and happy for us.  I told him that the other day when she started texting I had a feeling in my heart that I should invite her to come to church with us, but I didn't say anything to him about it at the time because I was content in my dislike of her.  Then I thought about how I haven't really met her one-on-one and have no reason to pass judgement on her other than the fact that she's his ex makes me uncomfortable.  But having some of my exes as friends means that I was being an absolute hypocrite.  I don't want to be like that.  So at this point I've told him that I'd really like to get to know her some before we all hang out.  I am hoping she'll either call me, text me, or unblock me on Facebook so that we can talk through messaging.  He's going to bring it up to her.  I just think that if she's trying to be his friend, I shouldn't push her out of his life.  At the least she deserves for me to get to know her. So we'll see how this goes.  I especially want to do this because apparently her new boyfriend is a Christian and she told Patrick that she's praying and has been getting close to God and well, I don't want to push away someone who is trying to have God in their lives (not that I'd push away people who weren't lol).

Well honestly for right now that's about it, maybe I'll have more to say tomorrow :)

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